Available Marriage VS Marriage Material

The fact that the person you are presently dating is AVAILABLE For Marriage does not mean that the person is a Material For Marriage.

Don't get it Twisted or get yourself Twisted ⁉️

Marriages failed because many of those who settled for those that were available for marriage are higher in number than those who are marriage materials and ready for marriage.

Why⁉️

Desperation, Loss Of Focus, Frustration, Peer Pressure, Family Pattern, Lack Of Direction, Fake Prophecies And Vision, Greed, Pity Parties, etc. can make you see some partners who are Marriage Available but not Marriage Material.

Until you are able to FIX and Heal Yourself from past failures, it will be difficult to See, Think and Act rightly when it comes to choosing right again.

It is only a goat, dog, and pig that repeat the same mistake, return to their vomit or prefer the mud to a clean bed ⁉️

There are various qualities you need to be on the lookout for before and during the period you date a Potential Partner. It is true we have some Single Parents searching and seeking Sex Partners but are not ready for a Relationship that will lead to a successful Marriage, it is also true that we have some Single Parents who are not ready to face the needs, responsibilities, and challenges of another Marriage.

To be ready for a relationship that will lead to a marriage is to be fully committed and responsible to give your very best to it.

What do you think can make somebody's Marriage Available and not Marriage Material ⁉️

Think about it.

Oladipupo O. Iyowun

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